Everything was always a problem cause my sis and I have grown really close although, before high school we had a horrible relationship and we have different views, opinions, and way of doing things than my mom. I mean, she tried picking fights just because I didn’t want to take the Ghost Happy Halloween shirt besides I will buy this same route she takes home. She picked a fight with me cause I wanted to file my own taxes. She picks fights for anything. She just wants to stir up a reaction from us. So we have learned to ignore her and it’s the best way to deal with her and not let her win her game.Now, if we don’t agree with something mother says then we speak up. We’re not silent anymore and it kills her that we are fighting back. She tries to become a victim and tells her family we treat her badly. We stopped putting up with her shit when I turned 21 my sis was 22. After that day she knew she could not control us anymore. If it were up to her she’d have us tied down at home forever. She doesn’t want us to succeed cause that means we would move away and leave her all alone… since she has no friends. She drives everyone away so she only has my sis and I. And it’s sad to say that we, her daughters, are ecstatic that she left to her home country, leaving us alone. Except, we’re not alone. We have our father and his side of the family to share their love. If y’all question where my dad was when we were growing up, well he didn’t really know how bad it was with my mom. Honestly, I was so scared of her that I never really told him how bad it was. Same goes to my sis. I think we did try to tell him once that she was a bit crazy but he thought we were just exaggerating the situation. Well, sorry for such a long answer but there’s just so much to say about my narcissistic mother still much more to say. Growing up with her made me extremely insecure as an adult. It stunts a persons growth in life and I really wish they hadn’t given my mother custody just cause she was the mother. I wish my dad could have seen through her and fought to win custody over us so we wouldn’t be facing all these hardships now. But it is what it is. This is the life I was given so now it’s up to me to make it better.
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If you read til the Ghost Happy Halloween shirt besides I will buy this end, thanks for reading my experience of being raised by a spoiled brat of a woman that also happens to be my mom. Not having kids meant not having an additional layer of stress in our lives as we struggled to make ends meet and get along with each other in the early years of our marriage. There was no escape from each other; no hiding behind the kids and this was a good thing. But, -and here I’m going to be brutally honest-, I’m supremely happy that I did not pass along all the anger and resentment that I grew up with. I was emotionally not ready to be a father. Any time I’ve taken over the years for self healing would have gone into raising kids and they would have felt my irrational wrath and carried it with them to pass along to the next generation. I no longer carry that burden so when I interact with young people I can be helpful, not detrimental to their well being. Leo Rudolf Raubal was conscripted into the Luftwaffe and was captured around the time of the Battle of Stalingrad by the Red Army. General Friedrich Paulus, German Commander at Stalingrad, had asked Hitler to send a plane to evacuate Raubal but he had refused and so Raubal was captured when the city fell, as was Paulus. Hitler had considered exchanging Joseph Stalin’s son, Yakov Iosifovich Jugashvili, who had been captured by the Germans, for his nephew, but Stalin refused with the infamous quote of “war is war.” Yakov ended up dieing in a concentration camp. Raubal survived the war. While almost every teenager makes an effort to fit in, Palo Alto doesn’t really have popular kids. Maybe it’s that high schools in general aren’t at all like what they’re reflected to be like on tv, or maybe it can be credited to Palo Alto’s uniqueness, but the high schools in the area don’t really have many cliques. They do however, worry about not being smart enough being a nerd is cool here! While below I did make the case that many of us are spoiled, I feel as if it’s a different type of spoiled then what’s usually meant. Sure, we live in an area where people make a lot of money, but every single one of those people worked hard for their money. We are surrounded by people who put in the time, effort, and dedication to get to where they are – they weren’t handed any money, they earned it.